Abbey, I want to offer you a hug. I hope my last post did not seem too harsh. You are the person who has to live with your decisions and if you're not ready to get things out in the open then you're just not ready.
Exactly three years ago this month my world imploded, I got the courage to blow my (now) xh cover and let him know that I knew he was having an affair. What followed was nothing like I expected... some good some bad. Hindsight is 20/20 and looking back there are things I wish I had done differently. But the fact is I did them and although things have not turned out like I hoped they would in the end... I will admit that the life I have now is much better than what I had.
Once in a while I even wish "I didn't know now what I didn't know then" but the truth is God has better things in store for me than the way I was living and I had to take a leap of faith to figure that out.
Me 54 DS19 and DS17 Married 06/1989 Divorced 01/2011
