Can I ask why you continue to not say anything about your w being late to pick up your son?
Val, that's a fair question. I think it all depends on the particular situation. In some cases, it means I get more time with my S. In some cases, if I have plans - well, too bad. I have laid into her a couple of times, but it's been when she's bringing my S. Actually, it's always been her pattern, and I don't think I'm in the position to cure that bad habit now. Any time my S gets upset about it, you betcha I'm going to bat for him. I won't hesitate! I guess another note is I'm not the most punctual person either, but I'm better than her.
Originally Posted By: Valeska19
Maybe that's not a DB thing to say something to her but it seems like you and w are hitting a rocky patch.
Yeah, you're probably right, Val. Right now I'm in a place of ambivalence, though. I think my W's going to have to hit rock bottom before she's going to change anything. At that point I'll have to decide whether I'm willing to take her back if she gets to the point of wanting to come back.
