I need advice for dealing with a WAW

[SamuelH]

So I've decided to try a new tactic (and no, I didn't send another letter, or gifts or even talk to the MIL recently). For the rest of December I am going to stop calling my W's parents. I'm going to stop talking to my sister-in-law. This is probably what I should have been doing all along I guess.

I'm hoping that if my W realizes that I stopped pursuing her she may think: "Uh oh, why has he stopped trying to get in touch with me? What's going on..." which may spur her to try and communicate with me...

What do all you DBers out there think?