Cat- Thank you for the resources. I will look for them now!
It would be soooo much easier if I could just tell him to leave. But I know that I have to stick it out if I want a chance at my marriage working.
You are so right with the "spousal" things. He has said he doesn't want me performing any wifely duties (cooking, laundry) because he can't be a husband to me right now. However when he is in the mood- then it's ok if I perform wifely duties?! Do they not see the irony in that? UGH!
Me:37 H:44 M:13 T:17 S:8 D:9 H living in spare bedroom since 9/5/11
