Wow, it sounds like he is really thinking about things a lot. He is really opening up to you. It's interesting his wanting to know who you are texting, and grabbing your phone, instead of letting you just tell him, like you might be untruthful about it.
I guess what I meant by "bad behavior" is how some men have learned how to behave in situations dealing with relationships with women based on the behaviors they have modeled to them as boys growing up with those same types of men as role models. But, I do agree with you, he does need to take responsibility for his own actions. And it sounds like he may be on that track.
