Wife left

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So tonight w and I had to take s to ER because of asthma. Doctors admitted him, may be combo of asthma and chest cold, doctors want to observe him for24 hours. I took off from work and volunteered to spend night since w usually does it and she herself was feeling a bit sick. S seems to be doing ok now, and is asleep. W and I had some good conversations, I tried to do "butterfly" touches rubbing her arms, shoulders or back here and there, saying comforting things. She pretty much moved away from touches but did not make any comments. I avoided R talk, although some stuff came up, about her taking stuff from house, I made a comment of I was hoping we could still work it out, her reply was "I'm just taking them to my place not selling them". I know I got to pull back, but damn it is hard. Anyway seems medication and breathing treatments are working so far on S, really don't need anymore stress, and it's heartbreaking seeing him like this.