(((((((IS)))))) My WAW still cooks dinner and makes breakfast and we eat together. I still pay most of the bills. W used to buy wine for us but she stopped so I do and she thanks me. Believe it o r not you are starting to detach but can not see it yet neither can I. Give it time.
The fear about growing apart is a good one. I think if I get this right it is what needs to happen. The R is dead already . I think she and u would. need to fall in love with 2different people but same body. Sounds weird. You should never have done her laundry and the little man should learn to do it by the time he is at least 10.
Once you stop really caring where they are things might change. W told me she was coming home late I did not ask why and really don't care. That is a 180 for me. It really feels better once it starts happening. Yes I may not want her if she ever wants to get back but she chose this and the consequences.
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
