LOL Well, you are correct, there are no absolutes in life. I guess I need to be careful about that. I do think a curveball now and again can reap benefits, it shows a little unpredictability. Isn't that part of what DBing is? A little unpredictability and mystery? I feel doing things like I mentioned might get the wheels turning inside the head of the MLCer. I have found that most people stay stuck on here, because they are not willing to rock the boat out of fear of losing their spouse, therefore they do the same ineffective things. You cannot allow fear to hold you back, it will beat you everytime.
