WAW in Los Angeles

[wawinla]

WLA (like this much better than WAW)

You're right, WLA sounds better. Besides, it's geographically accurate too as I live in Westwood/Brentwood.

I also think we all feel abandoned and rejected. What are you doing for yourself lately?

Good question. I fallen into the rut of being alone which hasn't helped. The combination of dealing with the settlement agreement and the holidays has put me in a funk. Thanks for the reminder that I need must make the effort to interact with others more.

I hope to secure a FT position in January...things look promising right now. Having s routine again will help a great deal.

Also.. In regards to getting what you "deserve".. Don't let overpower what you "want". The two might not always match up.

In my sitch, I DESERVED half.. But all the banter was causing such emotional distress that I WANTED that emotional stability more!

What does WLA want right now?

I've been wrestling with this for awhile. I'm sending my edits to the agreement this week, so I'll see the reaction I get from my WAW.

I too feel that I deserve half, but I DON'T want this to drag on. She's getting on with her life, and I need to do that too. If you can't tell, I'm not detaching very well.

THANKS for the encouragement/support.