BeingMe, as I have told you before, you have been at this a LONG time. You have tried everything and it is what it is. I think your H does what he does because he can, and he knows it. My advice to you at this point is this; take no more of his calls, change the locks on the house, place all his belongings outside and pin a note on the door informing him that you are done, find another place to stay. This course will do one of 2 things, either he will change his ways toward you or you will go ahead and divorce. Living like this is not healthy for you.
Like Jack. I agree with a good deal of this.
No one, ever, has tried EVERYTHING. You alone determine when you have tried enough. You should obtain expert advice in the legal and marriage arenas.
But like Braveheart and Jack have mentioned your own emotional and mental health come first.
