No, she wouldn't get checked out. She's weird about seeking medical help. She's been ok (well, for a WAS...LOL) since then. No more physical problems I mean.
I wanted to check in here - this is THE worst time of the semester.....the end.... SOOOOOOO much to do. I missed the MB and lurk sometimes to keep up with my friends' sitches, but I pop in and out really fast. This week is CRUNCH week, and after that, smooth sailing for a few. Until it starts again in January (I love it)
Same old stuff here. I got the mail today and noticed W got a mailer as a 'preferred customer' from a jewelry store....I'm guessing she's gotten OW a nice christmas gift, while complaining to ME that she has no money!! Why things like that hurt, i don't know, but they do.
Saw L today. Will update in more detail when I get time -- but basically she had to refer me due to conflict. She actually knows W in a business-relationship. But she did tell me she thinks i definitely have more parental legal rights than I thought, and that she is concerned about MIL's role --- being pushy and triangulting with S. I need to be more assertive with her. I haven't because I was so afraid about losing S, so i've been a doormat in many ways. L said to call the other L tomorrow, she thinks we may need to file some paperwork NOW to protect me with S and house.
Will let you guys know what I find out. I feel better knowing I probably do have some custodial rights, but scared sh!tless b/c MIL could do some asserting since W leaves S there so often. It's a big old mess!!!!! But at least I'm being proactive finally.
Don't remember if I posted here that last week I went to lender and found out that I qualify to buy the house I'm in (if W will sell to me) or buy another one. That was a relief for sure. Great credit and low debt to income ratio.
Thinking of you guys!!!!
Me (f): 45 W(f) 35 T: 13 y C: S4 adopted at birth 6-18-11 bomb: I want to break up 8-28-11 OW confirmed
(I love it)