Antonia - quote from my ex-boyfriend, when I was whining to him one day about the selection of men online:
"Hey - they called it Plenty of Fish, not plenty of pretty fish! You just gotta weed through - quit your whining"
(Lol - can you see why I liked him?)
Online dating has been pretty good to me but I can understand not wanting to do all the work - it takes time and energy to weed through. But remember all dating is just to try to LEARN what that person is like, you'll go through some of this no matter how you meet guys - at least online I can screen out the smokers and Republicans first!