Hello CO,
Just started reading your sitch, went through a similar sitch 7 weeks ago. Sorry you are going through this, but you are doing rhe right things, giving her space, not engaging in r talks, etc. I came to this board late and didnt get this advice, I wrote my s a letter owning up to my faults/responsibility, and it greatly contributed to her heading out the door faster than originally planned.

Keep listening to the vets on this board, they have been around, and have great advice!
Good luck and continue to lean forward!


m 54
XW 48
m 12
t 14
bomb 6-11
s 10-11
wife moved to other state 10-21-11
d 9-12

O GOD THY SEA IS SO GREAT AND MY BOAT IS SO SMALL!