[quote\ If my W and I do not reconcile, there are plenty of things to embrace when you don't have to worry about anyone's input.[/quote]

Amen brother! smile

That was how I felt last night. W didn't show up for our family swim because she was busy with her friends. Ok. Well, then I get to decide that we're pushing back bedtime to have a little more fun and to stop for cookies on the way home. You didn't choose to participate and I really don't care much what you think anymore since you've made it clear you don't think much about me anyway.

There are upsides just as there are downsides... you just have to look for them.


Married 6 together 8
Me:38 W:31 second marriage for both
SS12, SD10, S6
Bomb: 9/8/11 (day before our 5 yr ann)
W moved out: 2/18/12
D final: 11/12/12
Share S 50/50. Spend as much time as I can with SS & SD