Mlcers fantasyland dreams give them the impression that they will be far happier away from us. I'm sorry the holiday season is here and you have to put up w/this. I remember the walking on eggshells and it will get worse before it gets better. Do not help him. If he wants to know what his budget will be if he finds an apartment, then he needs to sit down w/the checkbook and figure it out. You are not his mother or keeper.
I'm glad to see you have a cruise booked. Go and enjoy yourself. You have deserve this time away.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
