TMC - A girl after my own heart! I'm a RABID Packers fan! GO PACK GO!

You wanted to know how long it took to get back together? Every case is so different but mine took an actual D, the OW deciding that my XH was not 'providing' for her in the manner she expected him to, and a few other blow ups along with me getting my own life, not reacting to him in any way, and not expecting anything at all from him as well as 2.5 years after the bomb.

Like I said, not every sitch has a timeline, not every R can be salvaged, and not every R should be salvaged.

You have a strange circumstance with your H being so pushy and rushing this D. It really makes me wonder what his issue is. Something is driving him.....I hate to say.....possibly someone is driving him.


T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43
bomb12/4/07
PA5/07
S12/26/07
D final 11/17/08
Back together with no defined R 05/2010
confused....to say the least!!!