I know that I shouldn't let this get to me, but it really concerns me that my EW never came by to check on our dog who had surgery on Friday. She was sick on Friday, so that's perfectly understandable. However, she worked on Saturday, so she was near our house and knew I'd be home yet she didn't come by. Also, she knew i'd be home working on things around the house yesterday and she didn't come by. Like I say, I know I shouldn't let it get to me but still, it does for some reason. Maybe she's just trying to cut all her ties.
Now for a quick question looking for some advice. When I gave her the card for her birthday she really liked it and said it was her favorite card. Should I do anything for her for Christmas? Send another card? Just a Merry Christmas text or something? Nothing?
I put my Christmas tree up yesterday and that was pretty tough. It was something that my EW always loved to do so putting it up was filled with thoughts of her. I used to hate putting up the tree and decorating for Christmas. Funny how something I couldn't stand doing before is now something I'd give anything just to help her do now. Live and learn I guess.
