hi everyone, its been a while. I have been focusing on my health for the last little bit and i am making great strides. I did have surgery to remove the tumor and i am doing well so far.
As for the home front. There is not much change. W likes the "family time" we have. Me, not so much. I have decided that this part time family doesnt work for me or the children. its not realistic and creates confusion.
W does not want the kids at her home, her an OM have been having some major issues. She says it wont last much longer. So basicly she is using him for a roof over her head, food, smokes, drugs and alcohol and as soon as a better option presents itself, she will be gone. She doesnt want to come home, that has been stated.
SS16 has been having some real issues lately. he is stealing from home, school, stores, and smoking and doing drugs. He will not listen at home, hates the world and thinks everyong owes him. He has kicked in the bathroom door to beat up his 14 year old brother. kicked his 8 year old sister cause she wouldnt do what he told her and he hit his aunt with a PS3 controller cause she caught him stealing money from her.
so i made the hardest choice yet, i called both his father and mother, asked them to call and figure out a solution. i didnt hear back from either of them. last night i spoke to W and i told her i was bringing him there, and she got mad at me. It is all my fault, and that i cant move him away from his family.
That was the last straw for me i think. I told her that for almost 2 years i have picked up the pieces of her life. For 2 years i have carried on and kept the family together. Well now, its not my problem, SS16 has 2 parents, its there turn to deal with him. I am done. I drove him into town and left him at her house. was the hardest decision i have made during this time. I just cant deal with his anger and his hatred of everyone. I have 3 other children to protect. maybe, she will step up and help him.
I put the house on the market today. it is time to move on and get a new family home.
