Indecision and the affair continues (Part 2)

[Abbey]

Nblost, teensy, tinsy little baby steps. Don't expect touch to work magic with no slip ups. (I know you know this, we all do, but the heart gets really hopeful, even when the head knows better.)

Even with the cuddly H, mine was all concerned about daughter getting home late from a family gathering with OW's husband. He proceeds then to tell me his concern about OW, not getting enough sleep, because the kids got home late, and she has to get up at 5 am. ... Like I care eh? I care that daughter isn't being taken care of properly. I care that she might/will be grumpy if he sees daughter today. I care that children need structure and consistency. I don't give a rats ass about the OW, her lack of sleep OR anything else of her supposed hardships.

He told me she rarely sleeps. He STILL views her as some kind of little broken bird that needs to be protected. His concern for her at times makes me want to slap him on the head. Yes, disrespect. Yes, our H's have their heads up their collective butts. Sadly we simply don't know what ends up being the straw that breaks the camel's back with OW. We wait and we wonder.