I get it! I tend to be on the 'weird' side too. I sure don't feel my age, yet I am, shockingly that age. I have four children, and six grandchildren, and I am still amazed at that. I don't think you're "effed up" at all ... you're just you. I think that at your age, you will find someone without looking. You are still young, and have a young outlook. I think that's very appealing. Or, it should be. For me, at 54, I'm a tad tired of the whole R thing. Once the S and D thing is settled, I think I'll just focus on my new career, wherever that may lead (or not), and my fabulous children and grandchildren (gosh, long words).

Anyway, as they say ... onwards and upwards. And don't look down.

PS Have you read the book about the library cat. I forget the title now, but it was such a lovely book. I love ginger cats. I've had two in my life and they were marvelous fella's.


Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed.
D35,S/D twins28,D22
EA4/04 End? Who knows?
"Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim