II nice quiet weekend, had the kids, loads of contact with them when I didn't and still no contact from my wife.
It now feels like I'm DBing properly now?
Yes I made all the changes, yes she noticed them and commented on them, but our contact was daily, even though it was all from her.
But this is the first time we have has NO contact, no text, no calls, she has everything she has asked for, and as far as I know she is happy, that is not based on anything other than her having all she wanted.
I miss her dearly, but I also find I am more settled as I am off the rollercoaster, when we got on really well, and she told me how she felt, although I tried not to, I did get hopefull, I don't have that up and down anymore.
I have thought about what happens when we do speak next, I am not angry with her, and I'm not wanting to argue or fight.
I will be totally civil and calm.
But if she asks how I feel, whats going on, what do I say?
My thoughts are that I tell her, she has filed for divorce, she has the house I gave her, she has OM, so as far as I can see there is no need for us to speak, and just leave it there.
But I also want to say that is she wants to be "friends" again and speak daily, that she ends the situation with OM, am I being too forceful and demanding by saying that, or am I just establishing my boundaries.
I will not mention this unless asked, but I just want to be prepared for when this situation arises.
