What kml said is so true. Your W is a mother too, doesnt sound like this OM is much of a caretaker if his interest are beer & woman. You should be thankful she is with a loser like that. Reality will set in quick.

Be glad you are getting the house, your kids will want to be back in their home too, not in some frat boy house playing beer pong.

Breath deep. Listen to your DB coach. Do what works!

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M 39
H 35
D5,D4
M 4
T 9
ILYBNILWY 5/18/11
Left 7/11/11
Divorced 12/1/13