DBing against OW...?????

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OMG!!!...VENTING!!!
S14 came home from Hs house today and has been a PILL ever since...ive come close to calling H several times but stopped myself because 1) I dont really want to contact him at all right now unless its an emergency..and 2) it doesnt make a difference anyway..he makes some smart a#$ comment about S14 will be fine and thats about as mush support as I get..

S14s grades are horrible and we (both of us sat and told him this) took his playstation system away from him until he got the grades up..we were specific about were they had to be and said as soon as he did this he could have it back. its been over a month..the grades are slowly comeing up but im sticking to our agreement...as soon as there are NO Fs he can have it back. S14 spent the whole weekend harrassing me by text asking if he could play the game and why cant he play the game and PLEEEASE can he play the game....i wanted to throw my phone away..i finally told him if he asked again id take his phone..
Now S14 is home and has already "threatened me" with spending way more time at Ds house since i wont let him play and then...wait for it.....actually said "ill tell you something about D if you let me play, something hes planning on doing"....I lost it..I told him he was being an immature manipulative brat, and i wasnt going to fall for that game. if he wanted to spend more time with his D that is fine, hes his D..but i will not be threatened by that. I also told him i was disappointed that that was the way he was choosing to handle the situation that is going on between me and his D, by being manipulative and shady....
GAWD!!!! im so angry right now....this is NOT normal behavior for my S, he is usually very sensitive and not so mean...im so sick of all this. and H is just over there with his OW im sure (since he didnt get to see her all weekend due to S14 being there for the first time ).obliviouse to everything around him other then the fact that hes getting laid on a regular basis.....AAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!

wow....ok......i think im better......