Wait! I do have some small advice ... try not to be bitter about the woman your W turned into ... remember the person she was when you loved her/she loved you, and things were happy. That way, you can see that your whole M wasn't a waste. The life you had with her wasn't wasted time.
Wow those are some deep thoughts. Even if we aren't successful in DBing those are some thoughts to live by. Might have to use that quote some day.
M 33 W 29 S 4 M 5 T 7 11/7/11 Separation, W moves in with parents 12/1/11 W: "IDLY, I'm not coming back, it's over" 1/7/12 D Bomb Dropped