Abbey, nothing we're doing is for the faint of heart!!! The faint of heart would be lying in a ball somewhere in a closet if faced with these situations!
Yep, if you come from neediness,.... your heart gets too easily bruised. It's hard enough to do it from confidence. It can shake you to the very core.
I just remember where I was during H and OW's full blown affair over the summer of 2008. All I wanted to do was suck my thumb, roll into a ball and hopefully fade to dust.
I think it serves mentioning, because it's really from there that I gained my sense of PURE survival.
The 180 sex thing. Frankly, I think if it can work... try it. If it doesn't, ... you have the option of going dark with is another in the arsenal of DBs. And yes, the touch, cuddle is connection which btw, is like a modem to the other person's brain.
Cheers Abbey
T:22, M:20 H:55 Me:45 H-OW PA: N/07 OW Jan08 Bomb:Feb/08 S: Apr/08 Back together Ap1/09-Sept/11 Oct, 2011, uncertain future/H is a mess. Dec/11 - Doin'friend mode. Some days are better than others.
