too much time and distance

[gunny]

Hey AC,
Here is how I am handling my sitch,

1. I am slowly liquidating assets(mostly stocks) as they regain lost ground or make gains. I send her her portion of the proceeds.
2. I forward all her mail and slowly send her stuff that she left around the house when she left.
3. Emailed her last week and wished her luck on her job search, she wrote me back and said she appreciated me asking
4. The understanding we have(as of the date she left anyway), is that when she finds gainful employment with health benefits she will come off of my health plan.
5. Like you, I have endeavoured to remain amicable with her, we have had no problems with splitting of funds, responsibilities, etc. I am hoping/pretty confident that things will continue on this way. Staying on good terms, without sacrificing any of my rights has so far worked fine for me.

I think after you give it the thought that it deserves, you will come up with the right decision. I think your instincts are good, good luck!