Crimson.. Im fairly new to the forum and your spouse sounds similar to mine..angry and bitter. I have found that no matter what I do my H will be angry and take shots at me...they look for a reason to be angry i think because if there not they have to face what they are doing and they do NOT want to do that..so anything we say or do is turned into something that sets them off.. I have decided to go dark big time because i cant take the emotional abuse anymore...i refuse to be a punching bag for my H and he will just have to find someone else to be angry at. so for now im avoiding all contact unless it is a drastic emergency regarding our S. Im hopeing that this will calm his anger enought to start a new relationship. who knows, it will def make me feel better to not get beat up on everytime we talk or have any contact.. just my 2cents...hope things get better for you...the holidays are hard, stay strong
Me:48 H:42 M: 18 yrs. S: 9/1/09 due to alcoholic H D bomb: 9/9/11 OW confirmed 10/30/11 D papers filed 11/01/11 S15 S21(Special needs) S28
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