Well, I probably broke every db rule Friday night, but I sent a text to h asking how it was going, and a couple interesting things were said..he said he was stressed, depressed, and scared. All of this is in regards to his emploment, but still, what's with the 3 adjectives all the time..

I asked what he was doing and he said sitting by himself watching tv same as every night..this was one of his main complaints about he and I, that he felt he was always alone...

I asked if he wanted to join d and I for dinner, he said he already ate and he would probably just bring us down, I said or we could bring you up..he said not likely but he really appreciated the thought....

Its probably nothing but I felt he appreciated my gesture..

Do you wise ones have any insight? Did I screw up, breaking the silence?

m 41
h 44
d 17 (prev marriage)
d 9
Never give up!!!!!