Tad, I'm sorry that Thanksgiving wasn't all it was cracked up to be this year, but next year it will be better. The first year of holidays, anniversaries, etc., after a divorce are uncomfortable milestones that we each have to go through to get to the other side. You will get to the other side...I have no doubts of that.
I'm glad to see that you are taking charge of your life and changing your alt and also wanting to move...good first steps to your new life.
As for your xw's texting...she's still trying to needle you and wants to see if she can still push your buttons. I'm glad you didnt' react. She needs to come to the realization that you are divorced and that she no longer has any say in your life or what you do. Projection? You betcha. Her life isn't a happy one and it's going to be a long time before she realizes that she lost the best man that she will ever find.
Keep moving forward...it's a slow process. Take every experience and allow it to wash over you and take what you can apply to your situation and toss the rest away. You are doing just fine as you move along the path of life.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
