She also told me that I was so controlling. I think I read somewhere once that MLC is a lot about control.
Depressed people are normally controlling.
So a CONTROLLING person does not want anyone to control them. SO she is either projecting on you or just not wanting to admit that she is controlling by blaming YOU for anything that you might have done. Like you smiled or trying to breathe. So you were controlling because you used up the oxygen that was surrounding her space.
Let it go and you are on the right track that someday she might wake up and realize that she lost you along the way.
