I'll just have to see...I think I'd have to be in the right mindset and he'd have to be acting friendly. I think I'd want to come from a place of confidence versus neediness.

I would have dismissed the whole idea...but last weekend when he said, "I want you" to me in bed...it made me feel like we could have a chance. I've said a few things to him slightly along those lines...but realized last night that maybe I should just try going a bit further with it. It feels like a 180 to me...but I know there's a big debate over sexual stuff as a 180.

Abbey, nothing we're doing is for the faint of heart!!! The faint of heart would be lying in a ball somewhere in a closet if faced with these situations!


M 44, H 46
D11, D9, D5
Married 12 years
PA confirmed 9/2011
I filed 3/2012
H moved out 7/2012