Totally agree, although I wouldn't expect that we would actually ML. H hasn't been willing to go there.
(There's several postings in my prior thread about using protection. The reality also is that OW is just separating from a long marriage and she is from a very wealthy family etc...I know that doesn't mean she wouldn't have stuff...but it's more unlikely)
M 44, H 46 D11, D9, D5 Married 12 years PA confirmed 9/2011 I filed 3/2012 H moved out 7/2012