Have you talked to a L? See what the implications are 1st. My L told to me continue paying as I have. That as the process goes on things will change ie she will off my health care a given the option of cobra. I think your question is personal choice. If it affects you financially you should cut her off but if you are ok than maybe you can help her. But you need to do what is right for you.
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”