The Chaplain said that if/when there is a D, that the chances on reconciling are extremely rare.... I'm scared because my w wants to skip Seperation and just D?! Is this true?

(F.K.A. Broken422)

US 40's
M 17,T 19
2 BOYS 13,16
Divorced 4/2012
11/2011 W SAID SHE WANTS D

"When it is dark enough,you can see the stars"- Ralph Waldo Emerson