W. Thanks for checking out my sitch. The temper thing is under control... I know how much is at stake, also this deployment has been rough...I think that I've learned not to sweat the small issues & to be thankful for my many blessings. W has noticed that I'm definitely improving in that area-- recently she lost my car keys ( $400 to replace) & the kids have broken things around the house and I took everything in stride when she told me..." no problem, these things happen"... Just thinking BEFORE speaking is so important...part of my 180. I have ic appts sched'd. I would love to see a mc but my w said that it's too late? Oh well- my only real options are to 180,gal n hope & pray for a happy ending. Thanks again for checking out my sitch. You should really be proud of your gal activities. Keep it up, someday our spouses will realize what they are losing and will come to their senses.
P


(F.K.A. Broken422)

US 40's
M 17,T 19
2 BOYS 13,16
Divorced 4/2012
11/2011 W SAID SHE WANTS D

"When it is dark enough,you can see the stars"- Ralph Waldo Emerson