I agree with you, whether it's one or more than one, it is so painful to have been betrayed by the one person you thought you could trust in the whole world. It made me feel I couldn't trust him to protect me even in a life or death situation.

I feel bad for any man who grows up with men without moral values to guide him. I think a lot of fathers are going to have a lot to answer for one day. I believe with a lot of therapy, a man can unlearn some of those bad behaviors. I like to think so, anyway.
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