So we spent one week apart. When we had to have conversations they were all done by email. When we needed to exchange things we would leave them on the doorstep. One would go to work and the other would leave. All without actually even seeing each others faces even if we had to talk around corners.
On Wednesday when we ran into each other in the parking lot I finally felt like I could look at her so I waited for her to get out of the car. She didn't want to and couldn't face me either. But she did and we hugged for awhile. We had some contact with each other that day. Mostly wrote notes for what we needed from each other. Then at the end of the day when she left we hugged and kissed.
Next day we ran errands together and we talked and bonded a lot.
Today she was very happy to see me and we hung out together and talked a lot (no R and nothing about the A) ran some errands and actually had a really good time together.
Strangely it felt really good. I don't really know what to think of it.
I was very unsure about reconnecting in any way but read "After the affair" and the advice there was to hang out and connect if possible. Similar to Michelle's "Act as if". So I guess this is all ok. I was worried that we would just fall back into the old routine but I don't think that's the case. feels more like a weight was lifted.
I don't really know but it seems right. Doesn't seem needy or "I'll take you back no matter what" sort of thing.
So I guess just see where this goes.
Feel free to give me any opinions as this is certainly new territory for me.
