Thanks for the tips! So this is what happened. Talk about rollercoaster! I sent him a friendly text wishing him a good day. He responded with thanks and asking me how my day was. I responded to that, and that was it. He did not text me any more. Anyway, after work I decided to stop by his apartment to deliver some mail that had come in for him. He hugged me and kissed me on the cheek (initiated by him). I was going to just drop off the mail and leave, but he invited me in and offered me something to drink. We started talking about our week, etc. I remembered that I should not overstay my welcome and leave before he became withdrawn. When I got up to leave he gave me a really tight hug and told me he missed me. He gave me a kiss on the neck. He said he was thinking of going to the movies next weekend and asked me if I would like to go. I accepted. That was it. As I left, he called me "babe".
WTH!? I am so confused by his behavior. Don't get me wrong. I have a warm, fuzzy feeling right now. But it's such a departure from when I last saw him 5 days ago when he would avoid eye contact with me and was clearly uncomfortable in my presence. What do I make of this? Is this my detachment starting to work? He had some time to think about me without hearing from me? Rollercoaster, here we go again!
As far as GAL, I will be going to gym and dance class this weekend. I have also planned to go ice skating with a friend this month. I am contemplating taking a 3-day trip by myself (maybe a cruise), but have to work up the nerve to actually do this.
M:12yr 06/11:IDLYA 07/11:Moves out 08/11:PA disc(began in May) 09/11:Moves w OW 10/11:Breaks up w OW;gets apt 11&12/11: Touchngo w me 1/12: Comes home-PA resumes 2/12: PA disc; PA ends Today: Piecing