Adinva--I read your thread and thanks for sharing.

I know he said the biggest problem in our marriage was that I did not listen to him and that made him confine in his female coworkers. So, I am working on this and I demonstrated to him last weekend when were talking our marriage. I listen and did not interrupt him while he was talking. And when he would point out my wrong doings, I said, I understand how you could have seen it that way.

This detaching is hard work.


H: 49
W: 47
D: 6
M: 6 1/2 yrs
H: Bomb #1 6-2010
H: Bomb #2 7-2011
H: Separated: 7-11-11
Reconciling 2-2012
Separated: 1-31-15 (I asked him to move out)