Adinva--I read your thread and thanks for sharing.
I know he said the biggest problem in our marriage was that I did not listen to him and that made him confine in his female coworkers. So, I am working on this and I demonstrated to him last weekend when were talking our marriage. I listen and did not interrupt him while he was talking. And when he would point out my wrong doings, I said, I understand how you could have seen it that way.