And understandably it sounds like in me trying to get her back her old position I am STILL being controlling...but my reason to help her get her position back is now "what is best for the department and the students", not "what is best for me." BIG difference :-)
M45 Bomb 6/09; EA 6/10; Divorced 1/11 Proud single mom of 7 little feline girls and one little feline boy "Fall down 53 times. Get up 54." -- Zen saying
