My W read these books (on the recommendation of her therapist) as a way of finding a way of letting me go.
I'm not saying that co-dependency is a good thing, but I do believe as a natural part of M there is a certain amount of co-dependency.
M47 W45 D10 (Has CP) D7 M12 T14 ILYBINILWY 5/1/11 Asked for seperation 5/10/11 Seriously DBing 7/1/11 W admitted to 2 EA's on 11/3/11. Evidence of PA 11/5/11 - Definite evidence of PA 11/20/11 D - Final 7/11/12