Thank David .. I am really just confused. My W and I did seem to be getting closer, she was starting to show signs of affection..like calling me back to bed in the morning as I was getting ready for work, just to hug me and hold eachother.We just came back from Disney a month ago, where we had a great time and she told me she loves me and that she was happy. It was starting to seem like, life was going to finally just start moving forward and we weren't going to be talking about our R anymore..... But now 3 weeks ago, after an all day trip with a few singal & D'ed friends, she tells me " I want my space, I want to try something different,like living apart for 6 months, I just want to be with our kids and my friends, and I need it all on paper, so we will need to be legally seperated". She would go out with our married friends wives , like once in awhile, but over the last 3 weeks, she has on out close to 10 night, a few nights she came home after 1am. I have asked her think please take some time & space to think about this. She said " I will think about it and let you know after xmas" .. this stinks !!! She is gouing out again tonight !!
