A couple of down days. This weekend friends are visiting. Years ago we visited them and something about that triggered the "I don't have any respect for you" conversation from my W that led to....well, all of this. Decided that there's no particular reason for the down days. And whether or not my W respects me is up to her. I worked hard to get to where I respect myself so I don't have to worry about what other people think. So bring on the weekend....