PA - Confirmed - Blinkers are off.

[NYCPeter]

Agree on all comments, I need to let her pursue me. I am rushing this.

Working from home today and she's been very snappy.
For example D9 needs to go in for a minor procedure on Monday -
Me - "Hospital called while you were out, did you know we need to be there at 7:00am"
W - "No, but that's not my fault."
Me - "I'm just letting you know that they called and told me we need to be there by 7:00am"
W - "Well I didn't plan it that way - they call the day before to give us the schedule"
Me - "Ok - do you need me to stay at home Mon AM off to make sure D6 gets off to school"
W - "Yes - how else are we going to manage it"
Me - "Ok"

Her tone was aggresive throughout....
Rollercoaster goes up and down...