PA - Confirmed - Blinkers are off.

[workinghardguy]

Peter... your concerns are the same ones I had and the reason W and I stopped having sex. While the last time we had sex we both enjoyed it, it was also clear that she was just "doing her wifely duties". I can only imagine that generates all sorts of resentment; though my W did allow me to be intimate with her. I just figure if it's casual sex then that shouldn't be with someone where it's anything but casual right now. And if it isn't casual sex then it's pursuing and trying to force a bond. Either way it's not a good thing.

If we ever find our way to piecing then we'll cross the ML bridge again. or if she initiaties it I may reconsider, but for now, no.