BeingMe, as I have told you before, you have been at this a LONG time. You have tried everything and it is what it is. I think your H does what he does because he can, and he knows it. My advice to you at this point is this; take no more of his calls, change the locks on the house, place all his belongings outside and pin a note on the door informing him that you are done, find another place to stay. This course will do one of 2 things, either he will change his ways toward you or you will go ahead and divorce. Living like this is not healthy for you.
