Autumn- I just got caught up on your sitch and wanted to say I think your doing a great job. Your h sounds pretty moody and volatile so I can only imagine you trying to make sense of his actions and words. It is only mind-reading to speculate but he seems confused as well and probably couldn't truthfully tell you exactly what is going on in his mind since it seems to change so frequently.
Keep up the gal because from a lot of what you wrote I sense that he sees what he is going to miss if he doesn't get himself together and hopefully that will be motivation enough for him to figure out what steps he needs to take to move towards a better place with you.
I considered myself pretty co-dependent on my w and although that has changed significantly since our seperation I do not want to fall back into that dynamic. How would you rate the Co-Dependent book, was it helpful and practical?
