OK Mr. Frisky, you do know that you are pursuing, so stop it! I think you can see small signs of progress but you need to be careful not to sabatoge the fragile nature of your progress.
Since the A seems to be fading away, you need to let your W mourn and stop trying to bring her towards you. Let her do that on her own.
Think of it like trying to start a small fire with a single match. You got it to light and you know it needs oxygen to burn. But if you blow on it too hard, you will extinguise the flame. Stop blowing so hard!
Me51 W53 S17 S14 M22 T25 Bomb-9/11; A-11/11; I move out 11/11
It's easy to find our bottom, it is our top that requires cultivation.
Every rough spot adds to our emotional constitution. -Barney Fife