MZ, I guess it par for the course when piecing that every little bit of conversation gets dissected to the core! I hopefully will be returning to the piecing forum soon, and have started reading again.
Reading your sitch reminds me that piecing is , as J3B says, piercing! It is touch picking up all those little pieces. I think its true, it will take forever.
Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18 Bomb: 6/26/10 EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ??? 11/5/11 Retrouvaille Finally piecing.... Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go
I have been over-the-top sensitive lately. This seems to have passed and tings seem better.
That poor yw I referred to earlier in this post. I secretly call her "Electra" because she has such a daddy thing going on with my H. I made it a point to really talk with her on the trip.....even being motherly towards her. One evening my H and I were sitting by the corridor having a glass of wine and she walked by and tagged him, he turned to see her walking down the corridor. I said, Isn't it strange that she didn't stop and talk to BOTH of us?" Poor social skills of Generation Y.
Oh and I talked about the elephant in the living room Sunday.
M 55 H 58 M 24 T 29 S 22,21, 19 Bomb 4/10 It (A) really isn't about you 11/2013 We all have work to do
The truth will set you free, but it will almost kill you first.
I understand feeling overly sensitive at times. I think our emotions are still on overload. Yesterday, I had high anxiety all day for no real reason I can pinpoint. I think for so long that's just the way my body and mind operated, and habits are hard to break. With regard to yw...just keep up your DB skills and remember that it will only be intimidating to her if you show confidence in yourself and marriage. If she sees you acting jealous or pouty about her presence, she may see a potential opening. Don't let her derail how far you've come! Have a great weekend. Lc4
Something shifted in me. H even said, "You seem lighter, your sense of humor is back, my honey is back!"
...And then he later said, "I want to grow old with you." And then something about when I'm 115 and he's 118 we'll go to Alaska...or something goofy like that.
M 55 H 58 M 24 T 29 S 22,21, 19 Bomb 4/10 It (A) really isn't about you 11/2013 We all have work to do
The truth will set you free, but it will almost kill you first.
I slept in Sunday. H went to get me a cup of coffee before I got out of bed. He hugged me, said he loved me and then said sadly, "I can't believe I ever got sucked away from you."
Wow......
M 55 H 58 M 24 T 29 S 22,21, 19 Bomb 4/10 It (A) really isn't about you 11/2013 We all have work to do
The truth will set you free, but it will almost kill you first.
I'm glad to read that things continue to go well, MZ. It sounds as if your husband is really trying hard to reassure you of his love for you and commitment to your marriage. Yes, you are going to have "down" moments (and days), but work through those times and keep your eye on your marriage and personal goals.
I hope you have a happy and blessed Thanksgiving! lc4
There are some simple guidelines (180s) I must always do that work. 1) Kiss H upon entering the house. 2) Light convo only. 3) No complaints about work. 4) Sit and watch TV w/ H and be sure I'm touching him. 5) Choose H over work. 6) Kiss and cuddle every morning w/out talking. 7) Ask his opinion. 8) When he's driving....grin and bear it! 9) Buy him little things at random. 10)Say yes to sex 99% of the time!
M 55 H 58 M 24 T 29 S 22,21, 19 Bomb 4/10 It (A) really isn't about you 11/2013 We all have work to do
The truth will set you free, but it will almost kill you first.
HI MZ! Just refreshed myself with your sitch. I'm now here in piecing and biy, amd I getting a big chunk of what its likein the past few days! major upheavals! But reading your sitch, I get a sense of how up and down things go.
Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18 Bomb: 6/26/10 EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ??? 11/5/11 Retrouvaille Finally piecing.... Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go
