Thanks PEI- great paraphrase.

Point noted Jack- I know I need to take the focus off him and I am learning. Slowly smile

Here's another question: As I soul search and pray about my actions that have led me here and I realize things I have done wrong, is it beneficial to apologize to the spouse while they are in MLC? I have had friends say, yes- apologize, and others say, no- because he doesn't want anything to do with me right now. Thoughts?


Me:37 H:44
M:13 T:17
S:8 D:9
H living in spare bedroom since 9/5/11